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What kind of atmosphere pervades your home? Is it one of constant busyness--always running from one thing to the next, always stressed, always short on time? Is it one of anger--everyone always snapping at each other, cruel words flying, doors slamming?
Or is it one of peace--kind words of love and forgiveness the norm, organization keeping everyone on track, time set aside each day to slow down and be together?
As the "lady of the house," setting an atmosphere of peace is primarily my job. That doesn't mean it's entirely my job, or entirely any wife and mother's job. Husbands, daughters, and sons all contribute to making home a haven--a place where people feel safe, comfortable, welcome, calm, and peaceful.
There are several ways that home becomes a place like this. First, it helps if a home is clean, tidy, nicely organized, and tastefully decorated. These are tasks that generally fall primarily to the wife and mother--but cleaning and organizing are jobs the whole family can help with!
Second, home is a haven when friends and relatives are made to feel welcome and comfortable. What kind of guest accommodations does your home have? Are you comfortable with having people over for meals or longer visits? Do you stress and worry when you have to prepare a meal for more than just your family? Practice hospitality--be kind and generous to those who enter your home. And that includes your family! Is your home a place where you, your husband and children, look forward to returning each day?
Third--and perhaps most importantly--a home is a haven when it is indwelt by the Holy Spirit. Do you make your home a place where the Gospel is predominant? Does everyone who comes into your house feel the presence of the Holy Spirit? Fill your home with prayer, worshipful music, good books, the regular reading of Scripture (individually and as a family), and ask the Lord to be present in your home. Just as our bodies are living temples of the Holy Spirit because of God's gracious work in us, so we ask that our homes be places where he is present as well.
Jami at Young Wife's Guide talked about this very thing in a sweet and thoughtful post yesterday. I highly recommend you read what she had to say!
Share with me in the comments--how do you make your home a haven, no matter what your role in the family?
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Tuesday, April 9, 2013
Monday, February 4, 2013
A Beautiful Home
One of the jobs in which I delight the most is making and keeping our home a beautiful, welcoming place. The home is the family's base. It is Spirit-filled, and ideally, a calm, relaxing and welcoming environment, not just for the family but for everyone who enters it.
The job of keeping a place like this is a humbling one, and one which I take very seriously. As a full-time college student who also works outside the home part-time, my schedule is quite full, and I have to keep my various responsibilities prioritized. After being a wife, being a homemaker is my favorite job, so it's near the top of my priority list. I should say here that it is primarily my job alone, but Joshua and I make a great team. He helps me out a lot with keeping the house organized, doing dishes, cleaning, taking out the trash, doing laundry, etc. Just as at this time in our life I don't expect him to do all the money-earning by himself, so he doesn't expect me to do all the housework by myself.
That said, being the woman, I am pretty much in charge of keeping the home. Doing dishes and laundry are two of my least favorite things to do, but I knew when I got married what I was getting myself in for (at least some of it!). The main purpose for all I do at home is to glorify God. Bottom line, when I wash dishes, scrub the toilet, and make the bed, I'm doing it for God. I am fulfilling the vocation in which he has placed me, and doing the work he has set me to do. But I'm also doing it for my husband, because I want our home to be a place to which he loves to return. And finally, I do housework for myself, because I take great satisfaction in seeing a sparkling bathroom, a clean and organized kitchen, and a dusted and vacuumed living room!
That's the why of what I do at home. As for the how...
-I try to keep on top of clutter. Some days I'm not home much, and I get behind. But I try not to let junk/dishes accumulate.
-I recommend always washing dishes immediately after eating. I wish I did this more; when I do, it's a great feeling!
-This semester I have a weekly pattern for cleaning jobs. That has helped considerably, especially putting time to do those jobs in my daily schedule. Things don't usually get done if time is not set aside specifically for them.
-It's my goal to have a place for everything, and to keep everything in its place. This doesn't always happen. But I like having baskets and little crates to keep like things together-- for magazines under the TV table, for candles on top of the fridge, for various personal care products in the bathroom. Command hooks are one of my favorite tools--I recently hung up three by our front door, hung fabric bags on them, and filled the bags with scarves, hats and gloves, to keep them handy but tidy. A couple purses and a light jacket are also on those hooks.
-I like having flat surfaces as bare as possible. This means putting away the things that pile up on my desk, clearing off the end table, and putting away DVD cases instead of stacking them on the TV table. This also includes keeping the kitchen table and counters clean and organized.
-Shelves are my friends, especially low ones (waist-height or lower). The tops can then be used, if necessary, for storage or for decorations. We have three such sets in our living room, for books, movies, and games. Under the games shelf is room to neatly tuck away our shoes. In a small apartment (we live in about 1000 square feet), everything is multi-purpose.
-I love having living things inside. We are blessed with big south- and west-facing windows, so I have two viny plants; one in the living room and one in the kitchen. I think this adds warmth and homeyness to a room.
Bottom line, I want our home to be a place where God is obviously present, a place my husband and I love to come home to, and a place where our friends and family feel welcome and peaceful. That does not mean that my home is always spotless. I don't always keep on top of things the way I should. Sometimes higher priorities--relationships--need to come before the cleaning; but that, I think, is the way it should be. When my husband wants to play a game together, I put aside the supper dishes. When a friend comes over to talk, I ignore the pile of clothes in the bedroom. I focus on what's most important.
Having a beautiful home is wonderful, and a good thing. But it is my desire to balance that with those things in my life with eternal significance.
What do you do to make your home a beautiful, welcoming place? Do you have any ideas or tips to share? Let's talk!
Linking with The Alabaster Jar, The Better Mom, & What Joy is Mine
The job of keeping a place like this is a humbling one, and one which I take very seriously. As a full-time college student who also works outside the home part-time, my schedule is quite full, and I have to keep my various responsibilities prioritized. After being a wife, being a homemaker is my favorite job, so it's near the top of my priority list. I should say here that it is primarily my job alone, but Joshua and I make a great team. He helps me out a lot with keeping the house organized, doing dishes, cleaning, taking out the trash, doing laundry, etc. Just as at this time in our life I don't expect him to do all the money-earning by himself, so he doesn't expect me to do all the housework by myself.
That said, being the woman, I am pretty much in charge of keeping the home. Doing dishes and laundry are two of my least favorite things to do, but I knew when I got married what I was getting myself in for (at least some of it!). The main purpose for all I do at home is to glorify God. Bottom line, when I wash dishes, scrub the toilet, and make the bed, I'm doing it for God. I am fulfilling the vocation in which he has placed me, and doing the work he has set me to do. But I'm also doing it for my husband, because I want our home to be a place to which he loves to return. And finally, I do housework for myself, because I take great satisfaction in seeing a sparkling bathroom, a clean and organized kitchen, and a dusted and vacuumed living room!
That's the why of what I do at home. As for the how...
-I try to keep on top of clutter. Some days I'm not home much, and I get behind. But I try not to let junk/dishes accumulate.
-I recommend always washing dishes immediately after eating. I wish I did this more; when I do, it's a great feeling!
-This semester I have a weekly pattern for cleaning jobs. That has helped considerably, especially putting time to do those jobs in my daily schedule. Things don't usually get done if time is not set aside specifically for them.
-It's my goal to have a place for everything, and to keep everything in its place. This doesn't always happen. But I like having baskets and little crates to keep like things together-- for magazines under the TV table, for candles on top of the fridge, for various personal care products in the bathroom. Command hooks are one of my favorite tools--I recently hung up three by our front door, hung fabric bags on them, and filled the bags with scarves, hats and gloves, to keep them handy but tidy. A couple purses and a light jacket are also on those hooks.
-I like having flat surfaces as bare as possible. This means putting away the things that pile up on my desk, clearing off the end table, and putting away DVD cases instead of stacking them on the TV table. This also includes keeping the kitchen table and counters clean and organized.
-Shelves are my friends, especially low ones (waist-height or lower). The tops can then be used, if necessary, for storage or for decorations. We have three such sets in our living room, for books, movies, and games. Under the games shelf is room to neatly tuck away our shoes. In a small apartment (we live in about 1000 square feet), everything is multi-purpose.
-I love having living things inside. We are blessed with big south- and west-facing windows, so I have two viny plants; one in the living room and one in the kitchen. I think this adds warmth and homeyness to a room.
Bottom line, I want our home to be a place where God is obviously present, a place my husband and I love to come home to, and a place where our friends and family feel welcome and peaceful. That does not mean that my home is always spotless. I don't always keep on top of things the way I should. Sometimes higher priorities--relationships--need to come before the cleaning; but that, I think, is the way it should be. When my husband wants to play a game together, I put aside the supper dishes. When a friend comes over to talk, I ignore the pile of clothes in the bedroom. I focus on what's most important.
Having a beautiful home is wonderful, and a good thing. But it is my desire to balance that with those things in my life with eternal significance.
What do you do to make your home a beautiful, welcoming place? Do you have any ideas or tips to share? Let's talk!
Linking with The Alabaster Jar, The Better Mom, & What Joy is Mine
Sunday, October 14, 2012
these yellow-tinted days
I know life isn't always perfect. I may be optimistic, but I'm also realistic.
However, on days like this, it's easy to look at the world through rose-tinted glasses. These days:
~church with my hubby, in a place we like, worshipping the God who loves us.
~sleeping in. Together.
~good food...lots of it. Good leftovers.
~time to do things we like: together, and by ourselves.
~teamwork. Working together. Installing plastic on our bedroom windows, to hopefully lower the heating bill. Laughing, helping, coordinating. And making a pie together.
~that pie. Not to brag, but the best apple pie I've ever had, anywhere. Kudos to my mother for training me in the kitchen.
~getting homework done. Two days early!
~time to sit, watch TV, and not feel guilty about it in the least.
~dishes: DONE.
~sunny day, windy day--after the rain last night. God is Lord of all seasons, of even the changeable weather.
I want to focus more on the good things. The blessings that so often go unnoticed. Even on the days when they're not so obvious as today's. Because you know what?
My perspective isn't always the same. The glasses aren't always rose-tinted (or, even prettier if you ask me, a golden buttery yellow...everything looks sunny through yellow). Some days they might be puke green. Or gray. Or a depressing kind of blue (not all blues are depressing).
But even when my perspective changes, God stays the same.
He always blesses--even when I can't see the blessings.
He always loves--even when I'm the most unlovable.
He's always near--even when I'm turning so far away.
That's my God. That's the one I believe in.
That's the God I thank, on days like these...
(and yes, of course, every day. but some days it's easier to remember.)
However, on days like this, it's easy to look at the world through rose-tinted glasses. These days:
~church with my hubby, in a place we like, worshipping the God who loves us.
~sleeping in. Together.
~good food...lots of it. Good leftovers.
~time to do things we like: together, and by ourselves.
~teamwork. Working together. Installing plastic on our bedroom windows, to hopefully lower the heating bill. Laughing, helping, coordinating. And making a pie together.
~that pie. Not to brag, but the best apple pie I've ever had, anywhere. Kudos to my mother for training me in the kitchen.
~getting homework done. Two days early!
~time to sit, watch TV, and not feel guilty about it in the least.
~dishes: DONE.
~sunny day, windy day--after the rain last night. God is Lord of all seasons, of even the changeable weather.
I want to focus more on the good things. The blessings that so often go unnoticed. Even on the days when they're not so obvious as today's. Because you know what?
My perspective isn't always the same. The glasses aren't always rose-tinted (or, even prettier if you ask me, a golden buttery yellow...everything looks sunny through yellow). Some days they might be puke green. Or gray. Or a depressing kind of blue (not all blues are depressing).
But even when my perspective changes, God stays the same.
He always blesses--even when I can't see the blessings.
He always loves--even when I'm the most unlovable.
He's always near--even when I'm turning so far away.
That's my God. That's the one I believe in.
That's the God I thank, on days like these...
(and yes, of course, every day. but some days it's easier to remember.)
Wednesday, June 27, 2012
looking at life with an eternal perspective
I was going to write a list of all the ways I use vinegar in my house.
It's pretty nifty, versatile stuff, so I might do that later.
But what's on my heart right now is something that my husband and I were talking about last night.
We were talking about perspective.
I came down yesterday with an annoying summer flu (stuffy nose, sore throat, aches, a little fever). Also yesterday I found out about a friend with a sinus infection that has spread so far it's within less than an inch of her spinal cord and cerebellum. She's a single mommy of twins and is having surgery in a few weeks. A little flu is nothing to complain about.
My husband was telling me about his boss...his encouraging, funny, no-nonsense, and very kind boss. He's been such a blessing, this man I don't even know. My husband loves his job. No, it doesn't make tons of money, but it's enough...and for the happiness that I see in Joshua's face when he comes home from work with more stories to share, I wouldn't trade this for anything.
We have a little apartment, yes...with a leaky window and hardly any counterspace. But Joshua told me, "You make this place a beautiful home." And it really is. It's ours, we love it, we love living here.
And emailing with a new blogging friend this morning, reading other blog posts.... How do we look at our lives? Do we measure them by the world's standards? Do we compare ourselves to those who seem to have it all? Or...
do we look at our life through God's eyes? Do we see ourselves the way He sees us? Do we place upon ourselves the worth He has given us?
Because as children of God, we are precious. Priceless. Treasured.
What happens when we look at life with an eternal perspective?
It should change everything.
This life is not all there is. We're not doing things for the here and now.
At-home mothers, wives, homemakers: you are making an impact on your family for eternity. You are raising your children to love and obey Jesus, and they will be among the believers in heaven someday. And in their own lifetimes they will be given opportunities to share the Gospel as well. As you bless your husband, encourage him and support him, you are enabling him to do his ministry for the Lord, wherever and whatever that may be. As you make your home a place of beauty and rest, you are creating a place where the Holy Spirit dwells, which will bless every person who enters it.
Women and men who have jobs in the workplace (and everyone else, for that matter): you are lights in a dark world. You have been given the opportunity to live the love of Jesus, even if you can't talk about it. And maybe you're a pastor, a youth worker, a teacher in a Christian school, and then you have even more opportunity to spread the Gospel.
Everything we do has an eternal impact on the world.
Nothing is insignificant in God's eyes. He calls us each to different vocations, and he works with each of us to do his work.
In this world we have troubles. But Christ has overcome the world. He has conquered sin, death, and Satan. Our victory is WON! We have nothing to fear.
Yes, we may struggle, with health, with finances, with relationships. But those things will last such a short time when we look forward to eternity. Compared to forever in heaven with Jesus, in a place of perfect rest and joy, the pain and suffering of this world is brief.
We were placed in the lives we have to bring the healing light of the Gospel to every suffering, painful place in this world. We are here to point others to Jesus. We are here to help give the world an eternal perspective--to help them see that in Christ, they have the victory.
It's pretty nifty, versatile stuff, so I might do that later.
But what's on my heart right now is something that my husband and I were talking about last night.
We were talking about perspective.
I came down yesterday with an annoying summer flu (stuffy nose, sore throat, aches, a little fever). Also yesterday I found out about a friend with a sinus infection that has spread so far it's within less than an inch of her spinal cord and cerebellum. She's a single mommy of twins and is having surgery in a few weeks. A little flu is nothing to complain about.
My husband was telling me about his boss...his encouraging, funny, no-nonsense, and very kind boss. He's been such a blessing, this man I don't even know. My husband loves his job. No, it doesn't make tons of money, but it's enough...and for the happiness that I see in Joshua's face when he comes home from work with more stories to share, I wouldn't trade this for anything.
We have a little apartment, yes...with a leaky window and hardly any counterspace. But Joshua told me, "You make this place a beautiful home." And it really is. It's ours, we love it, we love living here.
And emailing with a new blogging friend this morning, reading other blog posts.... How do we look at our lives? Do we measure them by the world's standards? Do we compare ourselves to those who seem to have it all? Or...
do we look at our life through God's eyes? Do we see ourselves the way He sees us? Do we place upon ourselves the worth He has given us?
Because as children of God, we are precious. Priceless. Treasured.
What happens when we look at life with an eternal perspective?
It should change everything.
This life is not all there is. We're not doing things for the here and now.
At-home mothers, wives, homemakers: you are making an impact on your family for eternity. You are raising your children to love and obey Jesus, and they will be among the believers in heaven someday. And in their own lifetimes they will be given opportunities to share the Gospel as well. As you bless your husband, encourage him and support him, you are enabling him to do his ministry for the Lord, wherever and whatever that may be. As you make your home a place of beauty and rest, you are creating a place where the Holy Spirit dwells, which will bless every person who enters it.
Women and men who have jobs in the workplace (and everyone else, for that matter): you are lights in a dark world. You have been given the opportunity to live the love of Jesus, even if you can't talk about it. And maybe you're a pastor, a youth worker, a teacher in a Christian school, and then you have even more opportunity to spread the Gospel.
Everything we do has an eternal impact on the world.
Nothing is insignificant in God's eyes. He calls us each to different vocations, and he works with each of us to do his work.
In this world we have troubles. But Christ has overcome the world. He has conquered sin, death, and Satan. Our victory is WON! We have nothing to fear.
Yes, we may struggle, with health, with finances, with relationships. But those things will last such a short time when we look forward to eternity. Compared to forever in heaven with Jesus, in a place of perfect rest and joy, the pain and suffering of this world is brief.
We were placed in the lives we have to bring the healing light of the Gospel to every suffering, painful place in this world. We are here to point others to Jesus. We are here to help give the world an eternal perspective--to help them see that in Christ, they have the victory.
Wednesday, January 25, 2012
All is Gift
You might have heard the warning, "If God only let us keep the things we were thankful for, how much would you have left?"
I don't like that question. First, blessings aren't about us. God doesn't give us gifts because we deserve them, because we obey him, or because we are properly thankful. He gives us blessings because he loves us! That's it, plain and simple. He delights to give us good things, as our perfect heavenly Father.
Second, that question is entirely LAW. Again, we have nothing to do with the gifts God gives us--it's all from him, and by his grace.
However, it does make me ponder...how many blessings do I have that I haven't thought about? What things do I take for granted? How has God blessed me in ways I don't often notice?
The simple answer is, everything. Everything is gift. But singling things out, praising God for individual blessings, is acknowledging his role as Creator and Provider of all good things.
Day 24 of the Joy Dare says to list "3 things blue." Well, today the sky is blue. Bright, clear, winter blue. It's so beautiful!
Yesterday I had on a blue-and-white striped blouse, one of my favorites. I really like how I look in it.
Joshua has a necklace with a pendant that he got to commemorate getting his Eagle award in Boy Scouts. It has a blue stone. It's a reminder of how much he has learned and grown over the years, how responsible and trustworthy he is, and the accomplishment for which I am so proud of him.
Today, day 25: "One grace borrowed, one grace found, one grace inherited."
borrowed... A lovely (also newly married) friend is loaning me textbooks for a class. I love using used books, especially literature textbooks, because of the notes and markings left by the previous reader.
found...hm. For once I can't think of anything. I know there must be something :) but nothing that I can think of has gone missing and turned up again, at least not recently. I read a poem by a classmate entitled "Lost and Found" that was delightful and uplifting. I suppose that could count!
inherited...that's easy. :) Much of the furniture in our house (couches, end table, bed) were 'inherited' from other people--all of whom, I am glad, are still alive, but who didn't need the items anymore. There is much history in our home's furnishings--lots of stories, lots of love.
All these things are blessings...and thanks to this Joy Dare, I've realized that and given thanks to God for them. All is gift!
I don't like that question. First, blessings aren't about us. God doesn't give us gifts because we deserve them, because we obey him, or because we are properly thankful. He gives us blessings because he loves us! That's it, plain and simple. He delights to give us good things, as our perfect heavenly Father.
Second, that question is entirely LAW. Again, we have nothing to do with the gifts God gives us--it's all from him, and by his grace.
However, it does make me ponder...how many blessings do I have that I haven't thought about? What things do I take for granted? How has God blessed me in ways I don't often notice?
The simple answer is, everything. Everything is gift. But singling things out, praising God for individual blessings, is acknowledging his role as Creator and Provider of all good things.
Day 24 of the Joy Dare says to list "3 things blue." Well, today the sky is blue. Bright, clear, winter blue. It's so beautiful!
Yesterday I had on a blue-and-white striped blouse, one of my favorites. I really like how I look in it.
Joshua has a necklace with a pendant that he got to commemorate getting his Eagle award in Boy Scouts. It has a blue stone. It's a reminder of how much he has learned and grown over the years, how responsible and trustworthy he is, and the accomplishment for which I am so proud of him.
Today, day 25: "One grace borrowed, one grace found, one grace inherited."
borrowed... A lovely (also newly married) friend is loaning me textbooks for a class. I love using used books, especially literature textbooks, because of the notes and markings left by the previous reader.
found...hm. For once I can't think of anything. I know there must be something :) but nothing that I can think of has gone missing and turned up again, at least not recently. I read a poem by a classmate entitled "Lost and Found" that was delightful and uplifting. I suppose that could count!
inherited...that's easy. :) Much of the furniture in our house (couches, end table, bed) were 'inherited' from other people--all of whom, I am glad, are still alive, but who didn't need the items anymore. There is much history in our home's furnishings--lots of stories, lots of love.
All these things are blessings...and thanks to this Joy Dare, I've realized that and given thanks to God for them. All is gift!
Monday, January 23, 2012
His Mercies are New Every Morning
...and so are his graces! And I have to remind myself that, although blogging regularly is necessary in a sense, it's not a requirement. So I'm okay with the fact that I haven't posted in a few days. :)
It hits me, some more days than others, how much I mess up in life. When I walk into the house and books, clothes, papers, et cetera are scattered all over the living room...dishes are piled up in the sink and on the counter...worse, when I snap and yell at my husband and let my words come before my thoughts can check them. When I gossip. When I'm lazy.
But then (as my husband is often quick to remind me), I realize just how much God loves me...because he loves me despite all those imperfections. He gives me a fresh start EVERY DAY. He sees past the sinfulness...he sees the redemption of Christ that covers me, the Holy Spirit who lives in me. He sees me beautiful, pure, holy--his. That doesn't ever change.
And despite all my sinfulness...God blesses me beyond what I can imagine. He gives me SO much more than I need. There are times when I think that I don't have all I need. When the cupboards are getting low. When money is tight. The list goes on.
But then I realize...I have food. I have clothes. I have a warm home.
And most importantly, I have things that money can never buy:
a husband who loves me and takes care of me
friends I can count on and trust
family who are always there for me
God. His love, forgiveness, grace, mercy, peace, joy, comfort, salvation!
And every morning...those gifts are always there for me. Again.
So on that note...
Time to catch up with the January Joy Dare!
Day 21: One thing in the sky, one thing from your memory, one thing that's ugly-beautiful.
-snowflakes falling a little when we were in Minnesota
-remembering the day two months ago when our car broke down, as we stopped at the exact same rest stop on the way to get it again. Not the greatest memories...but it was a time of learning, growing, and strengthening our marriage.
-"new" car engine. not a beautiful thing. but it is...because it runs. :)
Day 22: one grace wrinkled, one grace smoothed, one grace unfolded
-clean sheets. very wrinkled (from not being folded!), but very fresh-smelling. :)
-hubby smoothing my hair as he held me on the couch. <3
-the worship folder unfolding in my lap, holding lovely hymns, encouraging Scripture, the liturgy of Holy Communion
Day 23: 3 gifts found in Christ
(only three?)
-promise...of forgiveness, of resurrection, of eternal life
-comfort...from fear, from illness, from worry
-love...unconditional, unending, unchanging
{Quick update: after 14 hours in the car on Saturday, we have our car back!!! Joshua's parents were incredibly gracious enough to drive us up to Minnesota to get it. The engine has been replaced and although there are a few little things that need looking at, by the grace of God we got home without a hitch. In fact, it was a blessing to spend so much time with Joshua's parents, and then so much time just the two of us--without the distractions of computer, TV, housework or homework!
So we are fully independent again, thank God, and enjoying being able to drive to school and work.
Especially since it finally snowed yesterday! Today it was warmer than it's been in a while, so most of the snow has already melted, but it was lovely. (It's been a weird winter.)
EVEN MORE BLESSINGS!}
It hits me, some more days than others, how much I mess up in life. When I walk into the house and books, clothes, papers, et cetera are scattered all over the living room...dishes are piled up in the sink and on the counter...worse, when I snap and yell at my husband and let my words come before my thoughts can check them. When I gossip. When I'm lazy.
But then (as my husband is often quick to remind me), I realize just how much God loves me...because he loves me despite all those imperfections. He gives me a fresh start EVERY DAY. He sees past the sinfulness...he sees the redemption of Christ that covers me, the Holy Spirit who lives in me. He sees me beautiful, pure, holy--his. That doesn't ever change.
And despite all my sinfulness...God blesses me beyond what I can imagine. He gives me SO much more than I need. There are times when I think that I don't have all I need. When the cupboards are getting low. When money is tight. The list goes on.
But then I realize...I have food. I have clothes. I have a warm home.
And most importantly, I have things that money can never buy:
a husband who loves me and takes care of me
friends I can count on and trust
family who are always there for me
God. His love, forgiveness, grace, mercy, peace, joy, comfort, salvation!
And every morning...those gifts are always there for me. Again.
So on that note...
Time to catch up with the January Joy Dare!
Day 21: One thing in the sky, one thing from your memory, one thing that's ugly-beautiful.
-snowflakes falling a little when we were in Minnesota
-remembering the day two months ago when our car broke down, as we stopped at the exact same rest stop on the way to get it again. Not the greatest memories...but it was a time of learning, growing, and strengthening our marriage.
-"new" car engine. not a beautiful thing. but it is...because it runs. :)
Day 22: one grace wrinkled, one grace smoothed, one grace unfolded
-clean sheets. very wrinkled (from not being folded!), but very fresh-smelling. :)
-hubby smoothing my hair as he held me on the couch. <3
-the worship folder unfolding in my lap, holding lovely hymns, encouraging Scripture, the liturgy of Holy Communion
Day 23: 3 gifts found in Christ
(only three?)
-promise...of forgiveness, of resurrection, of eternal life
-comfort...from fear, from illness, from worry
-love...unconditional, unending, unchanging
{Quick update: after 14 hours in the car on Saturday, we have our car back!!! Joshua's parents were incredibly gracious enough to drive us up to Minnesota to get it. The engine has been replaced and although there are a few little things that need looking at, by the grace of God we got home without a hitch. In fact, it was a blessing to spend so much time with Joshua's parents, and then so much time just the two of us--without the distractions of computer, TV, housework or homework!
So we are fully independent again, thank God, and enjoying being able to drive to school and work.
Especially since it finally snowed yesterday! Today it was warmer than it's been in a while, so most of the snow has already melted, but it was lovely. (It's been a weird winter.)
EVEN MORE BLESSINGS!}
Sunday, January 8, 2012
Glimpses of Light
Today in church we celebrated Epiphany (which was on January 6, as always): the revealing of Jesus' coming to the Gentiles, the wise men who visited him from the East. A theme of Epiphany is light--Jesus brings light into the world, showing the Way to eternal life to everyone, Jewish and Gentile (non-Jewish) alike. He was the Light in a dark world, illuminating the world's sinfulness, and drawing people to himself. Now we, as his children, children of the Light, are reflections of him, just as the moon reflects the sun.
The moon is not the sun; it is smaller and depends on the sun for its own light. But the moon reflects the sun, sharing the light of the sun into a world dark with night. In the same way, we do not produce the light of Christ on our own, but he shines in and through us, illuminating the world like candles in a dark room. Jesus said in the book of Matthew, "Let your light so shine that men may see your good works, and glorify your Father who is in heaven." (Matthew 5:16)
Today's Joy Dare is about light: "light that caught you, a reflection that surprised you, a shadow that fell lovely."
In our bedroom and bathroom in the afternoon, the west-facing windows are filled with light from the setting sun. The rooms simply glow, bathed in golden light.
The china cabinet in the living room is reflecting the light coming through the window. In the glass cabinet doors I can see the curtain and the colors of the setting sun in the sky behind it.
The room is mostly dark at the moment, everything bathed in shadow. Joshua's face, sitting at his desk, is profiled against the window behind him, each feature outlined perfectly, dark against the still-light window.
This week I want to be looking for glimpses of Light--the Light, Christ, in others around me. And I hope to be a light in the world, shining Christ for everyone to see.
The moon is not the sun; it is smaller and depends on the sun for its own light. But the moon reflects the sun, sharing the light of the sun into a world dark with night. In the same way, we do not produce the light of Christ on our own, but he shines in and through us, illuminating the world like candles in a dark room. Jesus said in the book of Matthew, "Let your light so shine that men may see your good works, and glorify your Father who is in heaven." (Matthew 5:16)
Today's Joy Dare is about light: "light that caught you, a reflection that surprised you, a shadow that fell lovely."
In our bedroom and bathroom in the afternoon, the west-facing windows are filled with light from the setting sun. The rooms simply glow, bathed in golden light.
The china cabinet in the living room is reflecting the light coming through the window. In the glass cabinet doors I can see the curtain and the colors of the setting sun in the sky behind it.
The room is mostly dark at the moment, everything bathed in shadow. Joshua's face, sitting at his desk, is profiled against the window behind him, each feature outlined perfectly, dark against the still-light window.
This week I want to be looking for glimpses of Light--the Light, Christ, in others around me. And I hope to be a light in the world, shining Christ for everyone to see.
Thursday, December 22, 2011
Thankful Thursday: Christmas Edition!
Christmas has kind of sneaked up on me this year. I mean, I'm "prepared," so to speak, in terms of material things. But spiritually, I really want to get more in the mindset of the real reason why we're celebrating in these next few days. I think it's time to spend more time in the Word getting to know the Word, who in coming to earth became flesh to dwell among humankind.
That's one thing I'm incredibly thankful for today, and always. Other blessings this week:
-Good food! I've been baking up a storm, with Ruth and by myself. Unfortunately (or perhaps it is fortunately!) a batch of cookies seems to only last about a day around here, especially considering how much we've been hanging out with Ruth and Joe this week. But that's okay; we're enjoying them which is why I made cookies in the first place! (Peanut butter "blossoms," sugar cookie cutouts, and gingerbread men were the treats I made this year!)
-More good food: baked beans, rice pudding and salad for supper. The beans and rice didn't turn out quite how I hoped, but Joshua pronounced both "delicious." :)
-Our friends, as always. It's been like having an older sister the last few days while Ruth hung out with us during Joseph's work hours.
-Sleep. We've been getting a lot more sleep than usual which is awesome!
-Extra time with my husband. Both of us have been cherishing all this alone time, just us, at home. He is more precious to me every single day.
-Financial provision. God has provided in some pretty cool ways. We are so well taken care of.
-The anticipation of my family coming to visit in four days!!! I am so excited I can hardly stand it.
-A sprinkling of snow on the ground this morning. (Looks like it will be a mostly green Christmas, however.)
-Laughter. Oh, how much we've been laughing lately. It's so lovely to be so relaxed and content!
God is so, very, good.
linking up with Julia, as always!
That's one thing I'm incredibly thankful for today, and always. Other blessings this week:
-Good food! I've been baking up a storm, with Ruth and by myself. Unfortunately (or perhaps it is fortunately!) a batch of cookies seems to only last about a day around here, especially considering how much we've been hanging out with Ruth and Joe this week. But that's okay; we're enjoying them which is why I made cookies in the first place! (Peanut butter "blossoms," sugar cookie cutouts, and gingerbread men were the treats I made this year!)
-More good food: baked beans, rice pudding and salad for supper. The beans and rice didn't turn out quite how I hoped, but Joshua pronounced both "delicious." :)
-Our friends, as always. It's been like having an older sister the last few days while Ruth hung out with us during Joseph's work hours.
-Sleep. We've been getting a lot more sleep than usual which is awesome!
-Extra time with my husband. Both of us have been cherishing all this alone time, just us, at home. He is more precious to me every single day.
-Financial provision. God has provided in some pretty cool ways. We are so well taken care of.
-The anticipation of my family coming to visit in four days!!! I am so excited I can hardly stand it.
-A sprinkling of snow on the ground this morning. (Looks like it will be a mostly green Christmas, however.)
-Laughter. Oh, how much we've been laughing lately. It's so lovely to be so relaxed and content!
God is so, very, good.
linking up with Julia, as always!
Thursday, December 15, 2011
Thankful Thursday!
Another Thursday, another day to count my blessings!
I am so thankful this week for...
-the beginning of Christmas break. FINALLY.
-encouragement from fellow writers, including my boss at the library!
-projects, papers, tests completed. And a much better grade on my history research paper than I expected.
-the gorgeous sunshine filling the world and house today!
-a phone call from our boss at the cafeteria: no need to go into work today, not enough students left to eat. Whew. My nap was extended!
-time. To bake, cook, clean, spend time with family and friends. ahhh...
-my amazing hubby, who is sweet, delightful, loving, kind, and all-around amazing.
I could go on, as always. But this is what's at the front of my mind and heart.
http://blacktagdiaries.blogspot.com/
I am so thankful this week for...
-the beginning of Christmas break. FINALLY.
-encouragement from fellow writers, including my boss at the library!
-projects, papers, tests completed. And a much better grade on my history research paper than I expected.
-the gorgeous sunshine filling the world and house today!
-a phone call from our boss at the cafeteria: no need to go into work today, not enough students left to eat. Whew. My nap was extended!
-time. To bake, cook, clean, spend time with family and friends. ahhh...
-my amazing hubby, who is sweet, delightful, loving, kind, and all-around amazing.
I could go on, as always. But this is what's at the front of my mind and heart.
http://blacktagdiaries.blogspot.com/
Saturday, November 26, 2011
Home Sweet Home
What joy. What bliss. To come home to a clean house...MY kitchen...OUR own bed. Such a cozy little home (now that the furnace is back on).
This has been quite a week. Some things I don't care to get into, but quoting my husband, this was the "best worst Thanksgiving ever." I could write a whole story about it. Maybe I will. :)
Suffice it to say that we've had a lot of new experiences, some we weren't hoping or planning to have, but we are trusting in God's constant goodness and power. We are so very blessed, in many ways of which we're sometimes not even aware. Our family and friends are AMAZING. And we have each other, which will not change and which makes everything okay.
Continued prayers for Joshua's dad (and Joshua's mom and brothers) would be much appreciated. He had a relapse last night and is back in the hospital (after being home for only three days). This is a time of much learning how to trust.
Now it is time to shower after a long road trip and get to bed. In my OWN bed. Did I mention how good that will be? :)
This has been quite a week. Some things I don't care to get into, but quoting my husband, this was the "best worst Thanksgiving ever." I could write a whole story about it. Maybe I will. :)
Suffice it to say that we've had a lot of new experiences, some we weren't hoping or planning to have, but we are trusting in God's constant goodness and power. We are so very blessed, in many ways of which we're sometimes not even aware. Our family and friends are AMAZING. And we have each other, which will not change and which makes everything okay.
Continued prayers for Joshua's dad (and Joshua's mom and brothers) would be much appreciated. He had a relapse last night and is back in the hospital (after being home for only three days). This is a time of much learning how to trust.
Now it is time to shower after a long road trip and get to bed. In my OWN bed. Did I mention how good that will be? :)
Sunday, November 20, 2011
comforts of home
As I write there is oatmeal bread in the oven, just about done, and vegetable-beef soup on the stove (I didn't realize how long of a project that is, but oh it's going to be worth it!). Joshua and I have been lounging in pajama pants and t-shirts since we got home from church. It's been a wonderful, relaxing, couple-bonding day. And I got to do some cleaning and cooking, so I'm pretty happy. :)
It's amazing how my emotions rise and fall, how days and weeks can have such a combination of bad and good. Whoever first compared life to a roller coaster sure had it right.
That's just how it is here on earth, I suppose. The good parts more than make up for the bad. God is gracious, even though we're living in a world of sin. He lets us experience little glimpses of his glory, his goodness, and the perfection that he is preparing for us in heaven. So many good gifts fill every single day, more than I can count, and far more than I ever thank God properly for. And yet he keeps them coming.
This marriage-thing is wonderful: on the days when I'm sad or upset or frustrated, Joshua is there to help ease them. On the days when I'm being a snotty little brat (because I sure can be!), he is there to put me in my place and help make me aware of my sinfulness. And on the days when I'm happy, content, and joyful, he shares in those things and makes them all the more sweet.
Today I'm reveling in these comforts:
comfy clothes
comfort food
a warm home
a calm, relaxed mind
the gentle presence of my husband
the peaceful presence of the Holy Spirit.
It's a good day today.
It's amazing how my emotions rise and fall, how days and weeks can have such a combination of bad and good. Whoever first compared life to a roller coaster sure had it right.
That's just how it is here on earth, I suppose. The good parts more than make up for the bad. God is gracious, even though we're living in a world of sin. He lets us experience little glimpses of his glory, his goodness, and the perfection that he is preparing for us in heaven. So many good gifts fill every single day, more than I can count, and far more than I ever thank God properly for. And yet he keeps them coming.
This marriage-thing is wonderful: on the days when I'm sad or upset or frustrated, Joshua is there to help ease them. On the days when I'm being a snotty little brat (because I sure can be!), he is there to put me in my place and help make me aware of my sinfulness. And on the days when I'm happy, content, and joyful, he shares in those things and makes them all the more sweet.
Today I'm reveling in these comforts:
comfy clothes
comfort food
a warm home
a calm, relaxed mind
the gentle presence of my husband
the peaceful presence of the Holy Spirit.
It's a good day today.
Thursday, October 6, 2011
Blessings this Thursday
Lipstick on the edge of the cup that held a "Caramel Royal" (aka a Caramel Machiatto!).
Reading my story, aloud, to a whole class. Encouragement from our professor.
A poetry presentation. Feeling confident and prepared in front of the room. Insights from classmates that I never would have thought of.
Laughter at the beginning of philosophy: grammar-related. A funny email that the professor shared with us. :)
Sitting downstairs (instead of in the balcony) with a beloved teacher for chapel.
Unexpected income from babysitting.
A blustery, leaves-in-the-air autumn day.
Rain and sunshine, chill and warmth, clouds and blue skies, all in the same day.
The joy and singing of a four-year-old.
Sandwiches and chocolate for lunch (thanks to my awesome hubby).
Ten extra hours of work this week: extra income. Financial breather.
Good health. Healing hubby.
My husband suggested that I get a new dress for the homecoming dance. I'm going "thrifting" with a friend to get it. :) <3
Work. An education.
Home. Bed. Kitchen.
So many more...so many gifts. All is grace.
linking up to black tag diaries for Thankful Thursday!
Reading my story, aloud, to a whole class. Encouragement from our professor.
A poetry presentation. Feeling confident and prepared in front of the room. Insights from classmates that I never would have thought of.
Laughter at the beginning of philosophy: grammar-related. A funny email that the professor shared with us. :)
Sitting downstairs (instead of in the balcony) with a beloved teacher for chapel.
Unexpected income from babysitting.
A blustery, leaves-in-the-air autumn day.
Rain and sunshine, chill and warmth, clouds and blue skies, all in the same day.
The joy and singing of a four-year-old.
Sandwiches and chocolate for lunch (thanks to my awesome hubby).
Ten extra hours of work this week: extra income. Financial breather.
Good health. Healing hubby.
My husband suggested that I get a new dress for the homecoming dance. I'm going "thrifting" with a friend to get it. :) <3
Work. An education.
Home. Bed. Kitchen.
So many more...so many gifts. All is grace.
linking up to black tag diaries for Thankful Thursday!
Saturday, September 17, 2011
Life isn't perfect, but it sure is good. (Also, my hubby is a good baker!)
So my husband has been wonderfully "domestic" lately. I put that in quotes because he's not really domestic, he's just been doing some domestic activities. Mostly baking and doing some of the dishes that I never seem to find time to do. But seriously, in the last four days he has made:
bread
no-bake cookies (his specialty :) )
homemade chocolate chip cookies.
They all turned out fabulously. Last week I had him make no-knead whole-wheat bread. It was in the More-With-Less cookbook, and I figured, hey, no-knead! Easy, right? Have the hubby make it. The bread turned out tasty, but very, very dense. Read: cutting it gave me writer's cramp. Or I guess bread-cutter's-cramp. Anyway, this week I had him do white bread instead, which turned out really good. And the cookies were all fantastic.
But tonight we made banana bread. It was fun, working together. But then we were watching Smallville, and I left the bread cooling in the pans too long.
It fell apart as I tried to ease it out of the pans. :(
I nearly cried. Especially because I was going to give a loaf away, but it's not very pretty anymore. It does smell good, however, and I know it will taste great! (I haven't had any yet because I just had two fabulous chocolate chip cookies and a mug of vanilla tea!)
That's how life goes. It's never perfect. It might look really, really messy sometimes. And often I goof up so much I just want to cry. But that's ok, because I'm human. I'll never be perfect, no matter how much I try or how good my intentions are. Things will definitely not always go the way I want them to.
I know, though, that life is and will always be good. I will always have more blessings than I can count. I will always live forgiven and loved by God. And sometimes, life will even be great. :)
bread
no-bake cookies (his specialty :) )
homemade chocolate chip cookies.
They all turned out fabulously. Last week I had him make no-knead whole-wheat bread. It was in the More-With-Less cookbook, and I figured, hey, no-knead! Easy, right? Have the hubby make it. The bread turned out tasty, but very, very dense. Read: cutting it gave me writer's cramp. Or I guess bread-cutter's-cramp. Anyway, this week I had him do white bread instead, which turned out really good. And the cookies were all fantastic.
But tonight we made banana bread. It was fun, working together. But then we were watching Smallville, and I left the bread cooling in the pans too long.
It fell apart as I tried to ease it out of the pans. :(
I nearly cried. Especially because I was going to give a loaf away, but it's not very pretty anymore. It does smell good, however, and I know it will taste great! (I haven't had any yet because I just had two fabulous chocolate chip cookies and a mug of vanilla tea!)
That's how life goes. It's never perfect. It might look really, really messy sometimes. And often I goof up so much I just want to cry. But that's ok, because I'm human. I'll never be perfect, no matter how much I try or how good my intentions are. Things will definitely not always go the way I want them to.
I know, though, that life is and will always be good. I will always have more blessings than I can count. I will always live forgiven and loved by God. And sometimes, life will even be great. :)
Sunday, September 4, 2011
A Day of Rest...and Productivity
Sleeping in this morning. Necessary after a late night with friends and then with my husband. :)
Homemade oatmeal-bread-toast and tea for breakfast!
Smiles and tears in church, joy and tragedy (a plane crashed at the local airport this morning), thankfulness and blessings, the Word spoken and sung.
Easy, yummy, filling lunch. Doing the dishes together. Getting the kitchen into a little better order. (It never ends...)
Spontaneous romance.
Walking to work, hand in hand, such a cool and wonderful sunny day!!
Making pizza for several hundred people, with a lovely young lady, discovering a connection we didn't know we had.
Legs and feet throbbing after work, but thankful for the exercise, the ability to move and work.
A hot, long, soothing, refreshing shower. Bliss.
Hubby laying out my nightgown and bathrobe, making tea and more toast for an evening snack.
Smallville. A shared passion (obsession?).
Looking forward to tomorrow, with hope, with excitement, with peace.
Homemade oatmeal-bread-toast and tea for breakfast!
Smiles and tears in church, joy and tragedy (a plane crashed at the local airport this morning), thankfulness and blessings, the Word spoken and sung.
Easy, yummy, filling lunch. Doing the dishes together. Getting the kitchen into a little better order. (It never ends...)
Spontaneous romance.
Walking to work, hand in hand, such a cool and wonderful sunny day!!
Making pizza for several hundred people, with a lovely young lady, discovering a connection we didn't know we had.
Legs and feet throbbing after work, but thankful for the exercise, the ability to move and work.
A hot, long, soothing, refreshing shower. Bliss.
Hubby laying out my nightgown and bathrobe, making tea and more toast for an evening snack.
Smallville. A shared passion (obsession?).
Looking forward to tomorrow, with hope, with excitement, with peace.
Sunday, August 28, 2011
It's the Weekend!!
The first weekend of the new school year. And yes, I have some homework, but it's mostly just reading. :)
Friday was my mother-in-law's birthday, and the whole family went for dinner at Famous Dave's. I'd never been before, and it was SOOO good: I LOVE barbecue!!
Yesterday I spent several hours getting laundry done, then went to work at the library for two hours, then Hubby and I worked in the school cafeteria for 3 1/2 more. The plus of that is that we get to eat supper for free. We came home and crashed...it was actually a nice, relaxing, evening. I read in bed which I haven't done in ages.
And, get this: While I was at the library, Joshua: cleaned up in the bathroom, tidied up and vacuumed in the living room, hung the damp laundry that I hadn't had time to hang, did dishes, AND took out the trash: all without me asking!!! I have the most amazing husband ever. :)
Today we slept till 9, and we're going to the 11:00 service. It's my favorite, but it's just a nice perk that it's later in the morning. :) This afternoon, we...have nothing planned. I'm so excited. We're just going to be home, just the two of us, and do whatever we feel like. I can hardly wait. :)
May your Sunday be filled with the love of the Lord, time with family and friends, and refreshing moments of peace to fill you with energy for the week ahead.
Friday was my mother-in-law's birthday, and the whole family went for dinner at Famous Dave's. I'd never been before, and it was SOOO good: I LOVE barbecue!!
Yesterday I spent several hours getting laundry done, then went to work at the library for two hours, then Hubby and I worked in the school cafeteria for 3 1/2 more. The plus of that is that we get to eat supper for free. We came home and crashed...it was actually a nice, relaxing, evening. I read in bed which I haven't done in ages.
And, get this: While I was at the library, Joshua: cleaned up in the bathroom, tidied up and vacuumed in the living room, hung the damp laundry that I hadn't had time to hang, did dishes, AND took out the trash: all without me asking!!! I have the most amazing husband ever. :)
Today we slept till 9, and we're going to the 11:00 service. It's my favorite, but it's just a nice perk that it's later in the morning. :) This afternoon, we...have nothing planned. I'm so excited. We're just going to be home, just the two of us, and do whatever we feel like. I can hardly wait. :)
May your Sunday be filled with the love of the Lord, time with family and friends, and refreshing moments of peace to fill you with energy for the week ahead.
Wednesday, August 3, 2011
The Evolution of a Living Room
Julia over at black tag diaries shared some pictures today of the same city scape, taken from the same place, at different times of day and different times of year. Our little apartment has changed quite a bit since we started moving our stuff in nearly three months ago, and even more since we both moved in two months ago. So, here's our place, then and now.
May 6, after moving the first load of stuff from our dorm rooms.
May 10, just a few days later! Books unpacked, table moved, TV in place, future hubby napping again... :)
June 8, just a few days after we got back from our honeymoon. The place looks much more lived-in now.
June 15. There's a picture on the wall, the end table is clean, cookbooks in the crate, and a candle burning on the bookshelf!
July 17. More pictures on the west wall, oops- vacuum not put away! And the desk is by the window, china cabinet moved, lamp moved. It looks a little different now, but not much.
I'm so thankful for our home!! I love making it look beautiful, and I'm pretty proud with how it looks now. Can't wait to see what other changes will happen in future months and years!
Saturday, July 30, 2011
Things I'm Thankful For
My in-laws' church gave us a pantry shower last week. When my family was here, they brought yummy produce and Wisconsin cheese. This AMAZING pasta salad is partially from a box (Suddenly Salad, the Caesar version), plus chopped cucumber, diced Swiss cheese, shredded Asagio cheese, shredded chicken that I slow-cooked the other day, and some dried basil. I could have eaten the whole bowl, but Hubby loves it too! I'm so thankful for the kindness and generosity of our family and friends, for the providence of the Lord, and for really good food. :)
One day VERY soon I'm going to figure out a homemade dressing instead of the mix from the box, and I'll post the actual recipe. :)
I'm also thankful for beauty, and for a calm, restful place to call our own.
My lovely friend Emily drew the pictures on either side of our wedding portrait in the frame. So thankful for her, her wonderful friendship and her talent!
The white pillow on the bed was our ring pillow, made from my maternal grandmother's wedding dress. I'm thankful for family legacies.
The plant on the windowsill and the chair are from my paternal grandparents. I'm thankful for the kindness and generosity of our loved ones. Also, for living things!
The vinyl letters were a present from another lovely friend, Valerie. I'm thankful for the promise of eternity--Hubby and my relationship will be different, but it will last forever.
I'm thankful for love: the love of our family, the love we have for one another, and the love God has for us.
Linking up to black tag diaries
Sunday, July 17, 2011
Taking a breather. Making progress.
That's what I'm doing right now, literally. Hubby and I are in the middle of housecleaning and rearranging a bit before my family arrives, hopefully in about four hours! Yikes! I'm not nearly done and I still need to make supper in that amount of time...oh boy. Hubby is earning MAJOR points by helping me with cleaning and moving stuff around a bit. He is a priceless, priceless gem!!! And he's mine, hooray!!
I will post "after" pictures later, but we have a desk now from my in-laws, and pictures will (FINALLY!!) be up on the bare walls. And my kitchen will be fully clean. It's almost there now, I just need to mop the floor. I have an electric range and those little bowls under the coils get SO dirty SO fast. My grandma suggested lining them with tinfoil. Brilliance. So I did, to save myself hours of cleaning later!
Hubby was also brilliant, thinking to put the frame for our "extra" bed under the bed we're using. Of course. Now I don't trip over it every time I walk in the closet.
I finally got the blinds in the bedroom dusted. They were yucky. Now they're not, thank goodness. I've been wanting to do that since we moved in!!
It feels SO good to finally get around to getting this house REALLY clean and fully organized. I'm quite thrilled. Now--back to work!!!!!
I will post "after" pictures later, but we have a desk now from my in-laws, and pictures will (FINALLY!!) be up on the bare walls. And my kitchen will be fully clean. It's almost there now, I just need to mop the floor. I have an electric range and those little bowls under the coils get SO dirty SO fast. My grandma suggested lining them with tinfoil. Brilliance. So I did, to save myself hours of cleaning later!
Hubby was also brilliant, thinking to put the frame for our "extra" bed under the bed we're using. Of course. Now I don't trip over it every time I walk in the closet.
I finally got the blinds in the bedroom dusted. They were yucky. Now they're not, thank goodness. I've been wanting to do that since we moved in!!
It feels SO good to finally get around to getting this house REALLY clean and fully organized. I'm quite thrilled. Now--back to work!!!!!
Wednesday, July 6, 2011
Cleaning House, Serving God
I think this logical progression makes sense (if it's not very scientific):
All things belong to God.
Our house and everything in it are things.
Therefore, our house and everything in it belong to God.
God's possessions should be treated well, not wasted, and taken care of.
Therefore, I should be a good steward with my house and everything in it, because it is all God's.
Therefore, taking care of my house is serving God because it is taking care of things that are his.
Sometimes, I'll be honest, doing dishes and cleaning the toilet don't feel very spiritual. But even dishes and toilets belong to God, and taking care of them is also beneficial for the upkeep of our physical bodies! In the same way, dusting, mopping, and tidying up are all good for our physical well-being and are good stewardship of the things God has given us.
Also, having a clean house is good for my and my husband's spirits, our emotional health. Going into the bedroom and seeing it clutter-free, bed made, floor vacuumed, makes me smile! (Especially because I REALLY try to keep our bedroom a sanctuary, free from the chaos that sometimes takes over the rest of the house.)
Because we like having friends and family come visit, having the house clean and in order is a silent witness to the fact that we're taking care of what God has given us. It also creates a relaxing, homey, comfortable place for our friends and family to be, thereby blessing them also.
Taking care of my home and making delicious, healthful (usually) meals for myself and my husband is also fulfilling my God-given vocation of homemaker. (That also partially fulfills my primary vocation of "wife" but there are other things that are part of that vocation!)
I like to bless my husband. Having a yummy, attractive meal on the table when he comes home to a clean, organized house makes it easier for him to relax and gives us more time to be together. It also makes me more apt to spend time with him because I've gotten housework done while he was at work.
However, I've been learning to quiet my inner neat freak and put aside dishes or bedmaking to spend time with my hubby when he IS home, because time with him is far more precious than a clean kitchen. It's all about priorities. :)
Now writing this, I feel like doing one of two things: finishing the dishes, or inviting my husband to play a game. I think I'll choose the latter. :)
Monday, July 4, 2011
Proud to Be an American
I really am proud to call America my home. I know that this country has made a lot of mistakes in the 135 years since its birth. For decades slavery was part of our way of life and business. Our leaders have made decisions that have had serious negative consequences. Some leaders haven't been honest with those they were called to serve, or made decisions that most people didn't want them to make.
But we as a country have so much to be proud of! We abolished slavery and have worked to fight against it in other countries. We have fought hard for our freedoms--and won. We have had incredible presidents and other government leaders who have done so much good for this country and its people. Citizens of our country have made discoveries and invented things that have benefited people all over the world. We were founded on Christian principles and although that's not as easy to see anymore, we still have freedom of religion in the United States like few other countries do.
We have been so blessed as a country, despite doing things as a country that are in blatant opposition to God's Word. He has continued to be gracious and faithful to our nation as a whole.
On this day, I celebrate the fact that I was born in America and have grown up blessed by so many freedoms. I thank God for those men and women, including some friends of mine, who have sacrificed in order to protect those freedoms and protect the people of our country. I thank God for the blessings he has showered upon our nation.
And, today, I am remembering past Independence Days...there are so many memories connected with this holiday for me. :) It would take another post to consider them all (and I might just do that later). This day has much meaning for me, and I'm ready to make new memories!
But we as a country have so much to be proud of! We abolished slavery and have worked to fight against it in other countries. We have fought hard for our freedoms--and won. We have had incredible presidents and other government leaders who have done so much good for this country and its people. Citizens of our country have made discoveries and invented things that have benefited people all over the world. We were founded on Christian principles and although that's not as easy to see anymore, we still have freedom of religion in the United States like few other countries do.
We have been so blessed as a country, despite doing things as a country that are in blatant opposition to God's Word. He has continued to be gracious and faithful to our nation as a whole.
On this day, I celebrate the fact that I was born in America and have grown up blessed by so many freedoms. I thank God for those men and women, including some friends of mine, who have sacrificed in order to protect those freedoms and protect the people of our country. I thank God for the blessings he has showered upon our nation.
And, today, I am remembering past Independence Days...there are so many memories connected with this holiday for me. :) It would take another post to consider them all (and I might just do that later). This day has much meaning for me, and I'm ready to make new memories!
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